A best friend by definition is someone who is the closet friend. The first person to call to share good or bad news. My best friend is my husband Kerry. For that reason I have learned that marriage is not just love and lust but companionship.
Having a person who will do the boring stuff like errands and taxes with you is just as important as the sexy or romantic stuff. I believe that it truly is the reason why we have a shot at forever. I work hard on my friendship with him because I realize that when our daughter goes of to college and my other friends are busy in the end it will be me and him. The thought of that gives me comfort. true friendship should be forever and so should marriage. I am happy to be married to my best friend. He is my cheerleader, my voice of reason, a calming force and my homie. We may not have been through too much thick and thin in our life together but the man he is I know that he has my back. I love him and thank God for him everyday. I pray that I am as good of a friend to him as he is too me.